Wednesday, December 31, 2008

WISH all my BitCheS...
Happy neW Year!!

p/s - what i want for new year will be next !

Sunday, December 28, 2008

Growing old

well..few symptoms of getting old and "i don't know what"

1) I hate to bathe at night and too lazy to bathe in the day

2) I didn't wear any underwear for the past 3 days

3) I am having insomnia at nite (its already 2.25 a.m.)

4) Everyone think my hairstyle is a big no-no

5) I am thinking too much about the future

6) I don't like to spend my parents money and instead I spend my own money

7) I am thinking how to go through the college life for another 6 months

8) So little time to do lots of stuff

9) I am being plain mean

10) I am so attractive to babies..=.="

what is wrong with me? HELP ME!!!

Friday, December 26, 2008

Tagged

I tag;


1. Edwin

2. Joo Ling

3. Jac

4. Vernn

5. Vimal

6. Jessica

7. Janice

8. Esther

9. Xin Rou

10. Kaavi


How you know 1?(Ed)
How could I not know my so called "bf"..zzz

What would you do if 3&4 dated you?(Jac & Vernn)
We are already friendly dating..LOL

Would 5&6 make a good couple? (Jessicar and Vimal)
Its like water and fire? (Don't ask me who is what)

Do you think 7 is attractive? (Janice)
Of course..who gets to see fish walking on land?

Do you know anything about 8's family? (Esther)
Kinda..she use to tell me about her being an aunty..LOL

Tell me something about 9. (Xin Rou)
A friend in college and very hardworking

What language does 2 speaks? (Ju)
She ar..don't matter what language she speaks..but she talks with me rojak of englis, malay, hokkien and i dunno wat

Who is 3 going out with? (Jac)
Single..(chase after him girls!)

How old is 4?
18 and single too

When was the last time u talk to 5?
MSN chatting..yesterday kut

Who is 6's favourite singer?(J.car)
no idea..(such a bad friend)

Would you date 7?(Janice)
I'm so called going to the same primary, secondary and college with her for like 11 years?

What is 9's last name? (Xin Rou)
Rou-i guess

Would you consider being in a relationship with 1?(Ed)
oopss..wrong question..

Which school does 2 goes to? (Ju)
She is in Aus..to some uni next year

What do you like about 3? (Jac)
He is just pure crazy like everyone..

Friday, December 19, 2008

I HATE EVERYTHING...ARGHSS.....
BITES..
TEARS..
THROWS AWAY..
going to bed now..and lets see whether tomorrow turns out to be a better day not..
If not just zip up and start living in the hell of God's "good" world..

SHoppinG!!

It is very wise to have a shopping list, so I can finish up my shopping in limited time..ho ho ho..merry x'mas..

1) Padini business slacks

2) Levi's Jeans (optional)

3) Topman shorts

4) Edwin's slippers

5) T-shirt (not choosy)

6) Belt

7) Sport shoes

in short..exp items over budget liao..zzz..GO SHOP IN GIANT OR TESCO..= S

Thursday, December 18, 2008

Reducing Stress During Holidays

For some people, the holidays bring unwelcome guests—stress and depression. And it's no wonder. In an effort to pull off a perfect Hallmark holiday, you might find yourself facing a dizzying array of demands—work, parties, shopping, baking, cleaning, caring for elderly parents or kids on school break, and scores of other chores. So much for peace and joy, right?

Actually, with some practical tips, you can minimize the stress and depression that often accompany the holidays. You may even end up enjoying the holidays more than you thought you would.
The trigger points of holiday stress and depression


Holiday stress and depression are often the result of three main trigger points. Understanding these trigger points can help you plan ahead on how to accommodate them.
The three main trigger points of holiday stress or depression:

Relationships. Relationships can cause turmoil, conflict or stress at any time. But tensions are often heightened during the holidays. Family misunderstandings and conflicts can intensify—especially if you're all thrust together for several days. Conflicts are bound to arise with so many different personalities, needs and interests. On the other hand, if you're facing the holidays without a loved one, you may find yourself especially lonely or sad.


Finances. Like your relationships, your financial situation can cause stress at any time of the year. But overspending during the holidays on gifts, travel, food and entertainment can increase stress as you try to make ends meet while ensuring that everyone on your gift list is happy. You may find yourself in a financial spiral that leaves you with depression symptoms such as hopelessness, sadness and helplessness.


Physical demands. The strain of shopping, attending social gatherings and preparing holiday meals can wipe you out. Feeling exhausted increases your stress, creating a vicious cycle. Exercise and sleep—good antidotes for stress and fatigue—may take a back seat to chores and errands. High demands, stress, lack of exercise, and overindulgence in food and drink—all are ingredients for holiday illness.

12 tips to prevent holiday stress and depression


1. Acknowledge your feelings. If a loved one has recently died or you aren't able to be with your loved ones, realize that it's normal to feel sadness or grief. It's okay now and then to take time just to cry or express your feelings. You can't force yourself to be happy just because it's the holiday season.

2. Seek support. If you feel isolated or down, seek out family members and friends, or community, religious or social services. They can offer support and companionship. Consider volunteering at a community or religious function. Getting involved and helping others can lift your spirits and broaden your friendships. Also, enlist support for organizing holiday gatherings, as well as meal preparation and cleanup. You don't have to go it alone. Don't be a martyr.

3. Be realistic. As families change and grow, traditions and rituals often change as well. Hold on to those you can and want to. But accept that you may have to let go of others. For example, if your adult children and grandchildren can't all gather at your house as usual, find new ways to celebrate together from afar, such as sharing pictures, e-mails or videotapes.

4. Set differences aside. Try to accept family members and friends as they are, even if they don't live up to all your expectations. Practice forgiveness. Set aside grievances until a more appropriate time for discussion. With stress and activity levels high, the holidays might not be conducive to making quality time for relationships. And be understanding if others get upset or distressed when something goes awry. Chances are they're feeling the effects of holiday stress and depression, too.

5. Stick to a budget. Before you go shopping, decide how much money you can afford to spend on gifts and other items. Then be sure to stick to your budget. If you don't, you could feel anxious and tense for months afterward as you struggle to pay the bills. Don't try to buy happiness with an avalanche of gifts. Donate to a charity in someone's name, give homemade gifts or start a family gift exchange

6. Plan ahead. Set aside specific days for shopping, baking, visiting friends and other activities. Plan your menus and then make one big food-shopping trip. That'll help prevent a last-minute scramble to buy forgotten ingredients—and you'll have time to make another pie, if the first one's a flop. Expect travel delays, especially if you're flying.


7. Learn to say no. Believe it or not, people will understand if you can't do certain projects or activities. If you say yes only to what you really want to do, you'll avoid feeling resentful, bitter and overwhelmed. If it's really not possible to say no when your boss asks you to work overtime, try to remove something else from your agenda to make up for the lost time.


8. Don't abandon healthy habits. Don't let the holidays become a dietary free-for-all. Some indulgence is okay, but overindulgence only adds to your stress and guilt. Have a healthy snack before holiday parties so that you don't go overboard on sweets, cheese or drinks. Continue to get plenty of sleep and schedule time for physical activity.


9. Take a breather. Make some time for yourself. Spending just 15 minutes alone, without distractions, may refresh you enough to handle everything you need to do. Steal away to a quiet place, even if it's to the bathroom for a few moments of solitude. Take a walk at night and stargaze. Listen to soothing music. Find something that reduces stress by clearing your mind, slowing your breathing and restoring inner calm.


10. Rethink resolutions. Resolutions can set you up for failure if they're unrealistic. Don't resolve to change your whole life to make up for past excess. Instead, try to return to basic, healthy lifestyle routines. Set smaller, more specific goals with a reasonable time frame. Choose only those resolutions that help you feel valuable and that provide more than only fleeting moments of happiness.


11. Forget about perfection. Holiday TV specials are filled with happy endings. But in real life, people don't usually resolve problems within an hour or two. Something always comes up. You may get stuck late at the office and miss your daughter's school play, your sister may dredge up an old argument, your partner may burn the cookies, and your mother may criticize how you're raising the kids. All in the same day. Accept imperfections in yourself and in others.


12. Seek professional help if you need it. Despite your best efforts, you may find yourself feeling persistently sad or anxious, plagued by physical complaints, unable to sleep, irritable and hopeless, and unable to face routine chores. If these feelings last for several weeks, talk to your doctor or a mental health professional. You may have depression.



source : MSN Health

Post War

Well, today is my second day of getting grounded. Hmm... A day of getting grounded is not really bad though. Especially when you have creative idea of spending your time.


*points below*

I love candle lights and more candles, so I light up my room with those candles. LOL.

I assume my dad read my blog and his attitude was rather cool today (compared to yesterday). Instead there was a shopping invitation, but I decided not to go because, my mum plans to buy clothes for him. I can’t really stand in a place letting them choose his pants; I will be window shopping the entire mall. (and after all they need to go on dating) So, I plan to stay home and watch “The Nanny”. I can spend the whole day watching the show. It’s just super funny.

Staying at home makes me so hungry. Soon as my parents came back home, I brought them to Chai Leng Park to buy food. I bought Wan Tan Mee, Keow Teow Th’Ng and Char Keow Teow. I ate both Keow Teow Th’Ng and Char Keow Teow and still feeling hungry. (I donated the wantan mee to my sis) LOL.


And my point of blogging today is to, hmm... just to say


I
Am
Bored






And




Need

Someone



To




Talk



To

p/s – I need the person ASAP

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Parenting

Well, here I am blogging again. So called been grounded few minutes ago for some apparent reason of getting low marks for the exam. Somehow, I’m against this idea of getting grounded and so on. It is being partially unfair to teenagers for some specific reasons. (This is 100% my POV). Want to add in your POV? Just drop your POV in the comment area.

First, have you ever heard of someone saying that they want to fail in their exams or doing badly in their studies? As far as I’m aware, I never heard about people like that. So what is the point of constant nagging and punishment for not doing well in exams? Because the results are below the parents expectations? Give me a break! Why don’t they just sit for the exams? My POV is, why there is no encouragement given to teenagers to perform well?

- My case: - Trial results were bad. Well, I have to admit that I did not give my best during trials. Is it right for my parents to blame my other activities for the bad results? Is the internet or TV is the main cause of it? My father doesn’t care what my problem of getting bad result is. What he cares the most is all beautiful A’s on the result slip. That is so inconsiderate! I’m not a robot to produce the best of out the best. Somehow I have to admit that this is the mentality of most Asian parents.

What is the mentality of our parents?

My childhood experience was unpleasant. I strive to give the best for my children.

· My question, do you strive to give what you think is the best for your children or do you strive to give what is best for your children?
Many think that what they do is always the best. “I never had proper tuition so I shall pack my child with all the tuition available in my area.” Or “I never had a chance to attend music lessons or swimming lessons, so I will send my children for both the lessons”. To me, what they think is the best for their children is a way for them to satisfy their lust of their childhood dreams. You may ask is it wrong for parents to behave in this manner? But to me, it is always best to ask your children what they prefer the most. Is it too difficult?


During my time, there was no entertainment. No plasma TV, PS3, or even internet. I even provide you this advantage but you misuse it.

· My POV, time has changed. We have cutting edge technologies. So are you telling us that we should stay at home and read books 24/7 and ignore all the entertainment? Let’s talk about misusing it. Well, it’s a very subjective topic. To make things easier, let’s just talk about me. I use the internet more than other electronic gadgets found in my house. My mobile phone usage is very small. I only use about 30 ringgit per month and sometimes it can be lesser than that (at times I have balanced about 15 ringgit or so). So it is called misusing the advantage that has been provided to me? Sad to say, my father thinks so. Well, the entire paternal family thinks so. That I am spending my life in it. In my opinion, just because they do not use the internet often or does not use the internet at all, they feel that I am wasting time, money and electricity. (Your POV is much appreciated in this section)


That boy/ girl can score so well. Why not you? Since you both sat for the same exams.

· My POV, is the boy/girl my duplicated twin? Common sense-lah. Everyone is different, if everyone is identical and have the same thought and same mentality, world would be boring and life would be much easier. Everyone uses the same brand; watch the same TV show, goes for the same ambition. Is it so hard to understand that all of us are different?

· My second POV, if he can do it, why not me? It’s most probably because his parents have flexible mentality of understanding their child. So parents, the problem lies within you. Every baby is born with the same maximum level of IQ and EQ. It really matters how the parents does to make their children a better person. How are you spending time with your children? Buying food and sending them to tuition not the so called correct way of spending time with your children and understanding them. Is it so difficult to spend about an hour with your child in his/her room reading book or just do some simple family bonding?

· My third POV, since you are comparing me with this/girl, should I compare you with other better parents? Should I compare you with other parents that give their child freedom which allows them to hang out, smoke, drink and go clubbing? Or should I compare you with parents that spend time with their kids listening to the child’s story and experience? Sad to say, many parents thinks that their responsibility is totally over when they buy food and give money for education. “My work is to earn money and spend for my son’s education. Other than that I have no idea what my son is doing”. (This is a reply from a doctor when my aunty asked the doctor what is his son’s UPSR result and the doctor does not know what his son got for UPSR.)
Okay, maybe I went out of topic a little bit, but my point is: I am totally unhappy with what my dad is trying to convey on me. Being a genius and scoring strings of As is nothing compared how you are going to spend your life in the next few decades.


Your bank won’t ask for your report card, but will ask for your financial statement”,
Smart kid, Rich kid

Friday, December 12, 2008

Duit Bintang

Here, I'm again posting another post in less than 5 hours and this time in starbucks. Well, I'm here suppose to meet thiv, jo and the gang but I need some peaceful time in starbucks..so here sitting and blogging..wee I just have the best mood to blog here..(paying 20 bucks for starbucks works) but it is rather an expensive amount..I could eat a good 3 meal outside in those not so clean hawkers food..but every guy needs his indulgence..whatever crap.

Beautiful disaster..

(1) Wakes up earlier, buff up those muscles and prepare a healthy breakfast. Too bad, I couldn't find time to eat it..

(2) Bathe and went to get clothes to wear, but beautiful disaster..couldn't find any underwear in the drawer..
*ring ring* call my mum

ME: ma...my underwear..

MUM : oh..I think it is all in the laundry basket.

ME: zzzzz


p/s- I'm in Starbucks with underwear okay..found a long lost underwear of mine in the box..sighs


(3) Have to get back home and entertaint my relatives who is back home...wee...I get to go out again..


okays..this is total craps..


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I'm a total good person lately since God came to me (literally) so since then..I'm an angel..will stop cursing people..(trying my best) and be a little angel..but some people just know the trick to get me pissed off..so what shall I do?


1) can't ignore them cause they are super annoying

2) I call them humans.

3) arghhs...can't give anymore reasons..


total craps again

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I actually had something in my mind to blog about but this place is so distracting


ah peks in starbucks talking...and weird slang by the waiter and waiteress...urghss..total distraction...why the hell on earth they have to yell to customers that their drinks are ready..why can't they come and serve it..not as if there is hundreds of customers here..damn these malaysians..arghss..


i shall end my post with a vain pic of mine..


o

Break

Irwin Needs a

BreaK
More posts to come..hang in there..

Thursday, December 11, 2008

Arghss *bites*

Damn you... * # % ^ ! *

I totally hate people like you. Like puke on your face. Use at least 0.0000001% of your brain before saying anything..You and your stupid face and hairstyle..disgrace to the mankind..I mean man-KIND..

You know only how to critique about others, just look at yourself. Worst than others. "He not good lar..***** face...always make people pissed off"...like duh..you are the same f**cker face...and you are WORST...I SAID WORST...

Make no difference with the other jerks outside there, yeah..one jerk will call the other jerk to jerk around and annoy others with your attitude..USELESS DONKEY ASS...arghhs..I'm so done with you. Forget about me helping you in anyway and anyhow and anywhere..That communist is better than you. I shall repent my mistakes mixing with you..such a sinner am I...duix..

p/s - releasing stress and anger..[phews]

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

Irwin needs a hair cut

Since my hairstylist keeps on choosing my hair style..it's time for me to choose mine..what should I choose???

An emo hair cut..
o.O"?



*faints*


kinda hot..but short..=.="


gud enough?


super Hot...weeee


hot also..


do I have to comment on this?

looks like I have to grow my hair and no need to cut it..


makes me feel so old

weee???



speechless...

p/s- I did this out of boredom..sighs

Friday, December 5, 2008

When a boy gets bored

this is wat happens when a boy gets bored at 1 am..zzz


evil smile..


o.O huh? O.o


uncivilized suprise..no idea what is a webcam

gets hyper for no reason


scary movie the tenth

pika boo..=.="..so girlish


as usual...WEEEEE

getting bored with camwhoring


this is not my stuff...BOYS WE ARE


camera - a device for taking photographs or making films or television programmes

whore - a female prostitute or a woman whose behaviour in her sexual relationships is considered immoral


cam + whore = camwhore (definitely nt my thing)


p/s - i shall update more..=)